Have you ever thought what do people some most painful regret on their death? because when you realized how much time you had left, however it become clear which things are really important. Who can know these regrets more than a nurse. A nurse has recorded these top 5 regrets most people have when they are faced with death:
1. I wish I had the courage to live a life true to myself not the life others excepted of me
This was the most common regret of all. We all come on a stage at least once in our life where we need to take some big decision of our life, what we should do. Anxiety grip our mind because others are saying something and our inner voice is different our mind confused in the illusion of who is right, others which have huge quantity or me which is standing alone & when we ignore our inner voice and start to listen of others only because most people are doing same thing and we realize I have little time left we were thinking only one thing what would happen if I had chosen me at that time maybe life was more better, all our dreams remain the dream they never take the shape of reality
The no.1 reason people fail in life is because they listen to their friends, family, & neighbour.
-Napoleon Hill-
2. I wish I hadn't worked so hard
This come from every male patient. They missed their children's youth and their partner's companionship. Women also spoke of this regret but as most were from men. I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence. In the efforts of getting expensive home, cars and any others thing we lost our most expensive thing which are friends, family, and our happiness, we forgot why do we want these all things when we are doing all this for an the same thing going away because of it, then what is the benefit of this.
Let the FUTURE worry about itself, you have enough for today.
3. I wish I had the courage to express my feeling
Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. Sometimes, for a few moment of peace we take some decision that do not give us anything except sadness. They settled for mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming and as a result they developed illnesses relating to the bitterness & resentment.
Always express your true feelings because opportunity are lost in blinks of an eye but regrets can last a life.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends
When everything is going well we never realize what we got from our friends, what we learned from them, what is the importance of their and many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time & effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.
Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It's not something you learn in school but if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything.
-Muhammad Ali-
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier
Happiness is exactly like the buck of musk as he keeps on looking for it throughout his life, but he doesn't know that it is inside him, like this a person doing so many things for being happy but they don't know that happiness is a choice. Which you are finding everywhere actually it is in you.
Happiness is a choice not an achievement. Nothing will make you happy until you decide to be happy.
-Ralph Marston-
Thank you
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